The Courage to Pause: Working While Pregnant When Your Body Needs More

Hey Mummy! Working while pregnant can be empowering but sometimes your body needs rest. Mothers navigating pregnancy, hyperemesis gravidarum, and career decisions, this might be for you.

Pregnancy has a way of rewriting your plans. When I first found out I was expecting, I imagined I would continue working confidently until maternity leave. I had goals. I had responsibilities. I believed I would manage everything with determination and discipline.
But pregnancy humbled me in ways I never anticipated.

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Very early on, I developed hyperemesis gravidarum a severe form of pregnancy sickness that goes far beyond typical morning nausea. I was constantly vomiting. I could not keep food down. Even small sips of water became a challenge. My body weakened. Hospital visits became part of my routine. I never worked during either of my pregnancies.

At first, that truth felt heavy. I struggled with guilt. I questioned my strength. I worried about what others might think. I felt as though I was losing a part of myself my independence, my productivity, my identity outside motherhood.
But slowly, through the exhaustion and uncertainty, I learned something life-changing: sometimes courage looks like stopping.

When Pregnancy Sickness Becomes Debilitating

Hyperemesis gravidarum is not simply discomfort. It can cause weight loss, dehydration, dizziness, and emotional strain. It strips away routine and replaces it with survival.
I remember days when brushing my teeth triggered vomiting. I remember lying in bed feeling disconnected from the world. I remember wondering why something so natural could feel so relentless.

What made it harder was the invisible pressure to “push through.”
But pregnancy is not about endurance at all costs. It is about preservation of your health, your energy, your baby. Rest is not weakness. Recovery is not laziness. Slowing down is not giving up. It is listening.

Also Read: Pregnancy Complications: When Pregnancy Doesn’t Go As Planned

Talking to Your Employer with Confidence

If you are working while pregnant, communication matters. Deciding when to inform your employer is personal. Some women wait until the first trimester ends. Others speak earlier if symptoms are affecting performance. You have the right to request reasonable adjustments.

That might include flexible hours, lighter duties, remote work, or medical leave.If your healthcare provider recommends stepping away from work, trust that guidance. Your wellbeing must come first.No job will ever value your health more than you should.

Practical Support for Working Mothers-to-Be

If you are able to continue working while pregnant, small intentional changes can help protect your energy:

• Take frequent breaks to rest and stretch.
• Stay hydrated, even in small amounts throughout the day.
• Avoid heavy lifting or physically demanding tasks.
• Sit whenever possible instead of standing for long periods.
• Pay attention to warning signs such as persistent vomiting, severe dizziness, or sharp pain.

Your body is performing an extraordinary task. Treat it with patience.

Releasing the Guilt of “Doing Less”.

The hardest part of not working during pregnancy was not the physical weakness. It was the emotional weight of feeling unproductive. I watched life move forward while I stood still. Career growth paused. Plans shifted. Finances required adjustment.
But motherhood was already shaping me in unseen ways. I was learning resilience. I was learning surrender. I was learning that value is not measured by output.

If you are working while pregnant, you are strong. If you had to step away from work like I did, you are also strong.
Strength is not defined by how much you carry. Sometimes it is defined by knowing when to set things down.

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